Seun Dickson Apeninuola

How did it all start? You said hello....I responded hi... then we talked a little more... after all the introductions, i asked you a question "WHY DID YOU CHOOSE ME" then, you didn't understand my questions so you got angry, thinking i was taking you for granted, as quickly as i can be, i made my points clear, letting you know that i'll never take any human being for granted... at that point you understood (maybe) then the friendship started. in spite of the distance between us, we would talk all day, our discussions always distract most of our professional daily obligations (thank God for IMs)........... you practically became my bad habit... We made plans to be together, it was the first time i believed in a friend 100% without an iota of doubt whatsoever..... but God has a way of working things out............ We missed that Beautiful Nubia concert that we were suppose to attend together in Lagos remember? It would have been our first time out together but i guess...

It all started sometime in 2001 at my friend’s apartment. We were quite young then, it all started as mere friendship thing. But we got so used to each other, we were so close, we became best friends, we would tell ourselves the very deep secrets that we can’t afford to tell anyone else, we see each other like every day except when either of us was out of town, gradually, we successfully chased almost all our close friends that had been in our lives before we met just so that nobody would interfere in our matters. We both represent the oxygen we breath, either of us could hardly function at our full capacity when there was a sort of misunderstanding going on. You were my joy, my pride and my heart Then came the inevitable, pressure was coming from families, friends and loved ones as to when will the bell start ringing – wedding bell of course. Hmmm! You started asking me when it is going to be. Parent who hasn’t been bothering themselves on how we made it this far wants to deter...

I recently was assigned to participate in a project for my company (Accounting Solutions Limited) and in the course of the project, i had time to reflect on my life and i got to believe the saying that "whatever will be will be". I met some people that before now, i could say by all standard they are far more better than me and that they 're quite more advantageous in every way than i am. but having met them again i realise something seems mising.... what it is? when we see, i 'll tell you in private...lol. Please take this note from me, i have been telling everybody that cares to listen that life is just like a film, the scripts has already been written. Everyday is like a scene that we get to act, don't take life too seriously, play your part and live the rest to universe to take of, look at it this way, can you decide what to dream about? or haven't you heard that even while asleep you are somehow still active and in a world (subconsciously)? all you can ...